Tuesday, May 09, 2006

Self-Hating Men And The Women Who Love Them

Current mood: resigned

Category: Romance and Relationships

Loving a man for who he is and not who you want him to be can be a fatal mistake.

If he doesn't like himself, he'll think you're an asshole for loving him, and he will be threatened - not reassured - by the fact that you know his imperfections and love him anyway.

Better to love him for who you first thought he was, or who you hope he will someday be. Or love the man he pretends to be.

Whatever you do, don't love him for who he is. He will hate you for it.